“Smile, though your heart is aching. Smile, even though it’s breaking.”
I am pissed.
And not in your sassy, perky, know-it-all, typical teenager way.
This is different
I’m so angry I can hardly breathe or move or hell, even write this blog.
I want to understand. No,
I need to understand.
Since when did it become okay to be so hateful to each other? Your friends. Your peers. Your loved ones. These are people. We are people. And yet we sit here and hate so much.
We hate on social media by hiding behind computer screens and the vibrant glow of our cell phones.
We hate in person by laughing and pointing, or ignoring at all costs.
We hate to mask our own self impurities by pointing out what we define as flaws in others. Because as long as there is a problem in someone else, we no longer have to address the issues within ourselves, right?
Since when did it become okay to be so cruel?
I grew up thinking that everyone on earth had the same thought process and love in their hearts as I did. Maybe that was dumb on my part. To be quite honest, I did read Peter Pan a few too many times. I’ve just always thought kindness was an instinctive response.
And I guess because of that instinct of my own, I automatically assume that everyone else is first to show kindness as well. But they’re not. If anything, it is the last thing they feel the need to do.
Nobody is kind anymore in this world.
(Disclosure. I know a handful. And I keep them very close to my heart.)
Humans are exhausting. Many do things for the sole purpose of benefiting themselves, or for their egotistical mindset. I never understood the world and how so many people could really do the awful things that they do.
And here I thought for a while, “It’s just petty high school drama.” But it never ends, even when your tassle is on the left side of your head.
What used to be “My best friend is talking bad about me behind my back” turns into even bigger things that take a giant toll on your heart. High school is nothing compared to the real world. In fact, the two places have nothing to do with whether or not people are shitty. They’re shitty no matter where you go.
My heart is rather worn and tired. And I’m not even to my 20’s yet. I shouldn’t have to say things like this, but I genuinely feel as if my heart cannot take anymore cruelty from the people of this world.
“You’re just a teenager, quit whining.” Says the adult, perched with one hand on their hip and their choice of alcohol in the other. “Nothing lasts forever.”
You’re right. I am a teenager. And I’m probably whining a lot right now, so you’re right about that too. But this is very real for me. People are horrid. People are mean. And I’m having a hard time understanding it. When I don’t understand something, it tends to take an even greater toll on me. And for me, who has only been around for 18 years, this is the only “forever” I’ve known. This feels like forever.
For those of you who understand what I feel, or are maybe going through it yourself, I want you to know that I applaud you for still finding the courage to crawl out of bed everyday. The world is a nasty place.
Your friends aren’t friends sometimes. And you may feel lost, and alone, but everyday you smile and show gratitude and kindness to everyone who comes your way.
That is truly the good in the world.
So, why you may be seeing a lot of bad, a lot of evil, a lot of horror and deceit, let this ring true;
No matter how shitty people may be, you can have a glimmer of hope inside of you knowing that somewhere out there, there is someone just like you who feels and hurts beside you. And that as long as there are smiles on faces and a sun in the sky, there is at least some good in the world.
I, at least, have to believe that this won’t last forever. But that doesn’t mean that people don’t suck right now.
Or maybe it will last forever, and we will just learn how to not be so affected by it.
Whatever works, I guess.
Until next time,